Okay as a female I do confess that females have a sexual drive we are human and have needs that need to be fulfilled. But tell me about the whole f**k buddy thing. Is it just me or do is this a guys way of getting his cake and eating it too? I mean sex to a girl is never jus sex. Feelings always come into play. When sleeping with someone a woman has to let her guard down let the guy in literally and figuritivly. With guys sex is a more external thing, not as invasivly personal. Okay so I know I may be lynched for seeming sexist but generalisations start somewhere don't they? I am all for healthy sex but how do you handle being with someone but not really being with them, how do you as a woman seperate yoursel from the person and your own feelings? I just want to know how this could work people give me your input.